Ephesians 5:10 Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord.
My bible has a note here to look at Romans 12:2.
Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world; but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God.
Want to know what the perfect will of God is for your life? This tells you what to do. Transform your mind by washing it in the word. Remember garbage in, garbage out. You can't expect to overcome the sin in your life if you aren't willing to work at it. If you don't care what you hear or see, then you will think as the world thinks and act as the world acts.
Are you tired of conforming? Then do something about it. Only you can make that decision, and only you can stick to it and do something about it.